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What leaves your kitchen?

By Jim Connolly | September 20, 2011

One of the characteristics of the very best Permission Marketing, is that the message is so valuable to you that you would miss it, if it stopped.

I encountered a superb example of this yesterday, when I noticed myself checking a couple of my favourite a number of times, to see if a new post had been published yet.  For the 3rd day running there were no updates and that mattered to me.  I missed it.  My day was less, because their contribution was missing.

THAT is the way you want people to feel about your blog posts, newsletters and social media updates.  Not as an intrusion, but as a welcomed experience.  BTW: It was an RSS issue and I grabbed all the missing posts, later.

What leaves your kitchen is what matters

A great chef knows that nothing should leave their kitchen, unless it is worthy of them.  In marketing, we need to apply a similar screening process before we press the send or publish button.  We need to think if what we are about to share is likely to add value to those who receive it or not.

If we get that balance right, when we offer our audience a business proposition, they will listen.  We will have earned their valuable attention.

This contribution focused approach is a world away from pestering people with sales pitches.  It’s all about engaging with your marketplace by being seen as a source of value.  Pestering people with sales messages, on the other hand, simply trains them to ignore you!

Bloggers: How to write something interesting every day!

By Jim Connolly | September 16, 2011

blogging

If you would like to learn the secret behind those amazing bloggers, who somehow manage to publish interesting content every day, here it is!

Drum roll please…

They have simply figured out that writing is a lot like talking and that talking is easy.  Everyone says something every day that is interesting, to people in their niche.  Prolific bloggers simply write those thoughts down and publish them.

So, unless people tend to fall asleep when you speak with them about your subject, you already have all the content you need.

Some wonderful ideas never become blog posts

A common example of this can be seen when you look at the great comments on social networks, blogs and forums, from people who seldom update their own blogs.  I get comments here often, where the commenter shares an idea or insight, which is as good (sometimes better) than my original post.  I then check their blog out and find it’s had nothing added to it in weeks or months.  They clearly don’t lack ideas for content, they simply choose not to share them as blog posts.

If people listen with interest when you speak, they will read with interest when you write; especially if you just be yourself.

But first, you need to get your ideas out there and in my experience, blogging is the finest possible way to do that.

So, what’s holding you back?

Your blog and doing it your way!

By Jim Connolly | September 15, 2011

When it comes to developing this blog, I don’t do a lot.

  • I don’t do guest blogging.  I’ve written just 1 guest blog post; when approached by John Jantsch of Duct Tape Marketing, to help with American Small Business Week.
  • I don’t write a newsletter.  A growing list of thousands of people, already read this blog via email each day.
  • I don’t attend blog conferences.
  • I don’t use auto-responders.
  • I don’t use SEO software.
  • I don’t use landing page software, either.
  • I don’t use special commenting software.  I object to you having to give your details to some Internet start-up, in order for you to leave a comment here.

However, I do a few things too.

  • I show up here regularly and write.
  • I make my own rules.
  • I reply to every comment, where someone directs their comment to me or mentions me.
  • I write useful posts, rather than great posts.  I’d rather be useful, than a smartass!
  • I write independently.
  • I continuously strive to be of as much service to you as possible.

I am not saying that this is the way to develop a successful blog, because IT ISN’T!  It’s just an insight into my approach.

That’s my point!

Be cautious of anyone telling you that their way is the way or that you need to buy their stuff in order to succeed.  Both are factually incorrect.

Here’s a great place to start: Produce useful content and put it where people will see it.

Are you training people to ignore you?

By Jim Connolly | September 6, 2011

Do you want your marketing to get noticed?  If you just answered yes, this quick tip may help you.

Did you know that if you send too many marketing messages to your prospective clients, you actually become LESS visible to them?  Being too noisy with your marketing, simply trains people to ignore you.  They switch off.

How to be ignored

Some common ways to train people to ignore you, include:

  • Emailing people with your special offers, too often.
  • Pestering people on Facebook with invites, etc.
  • Sending too many self promoting tweets out on Twitter.
  • Hassling people at networking events.

Just as you ignore pushy people like that, so do your prospective clients.  They learn to filter it out.  In short, the moment your marketing is seen as an intrusion, you’ve lost them!

The same is true if you send messages less frequently, but with repetitive content.  People switch off.  If they think they can guess the content of your message, they have no need to click on, read or open it.  Through kindness, they may still follow you on a social network or stay subscribed to your list, but they’re not listening any more.

A balanced approach

The balance is to send valuable information, with appropriate regularity, to people who want to receive it.

Tip: A great guide to follow if you want to gain or retain the attention of your marketplace, is to only send messages that are of such value, that people would miss them if you stopped.

More engagement and more fun too!

By Jim Connolly | August 14, 2011

How do you invest your time, when connecting with people online or publishing content?

I ask this, as over the past week, I made a few minor adjustments to the way I spend my time, which I would like to share with you.  The end result has been extremely valuable and a lot of fun too!

Over the past 7 days, I have probably connected with more people, than in any 1 week period since I started using the ‘net back in 1994.

Here’s what I have been doing

What I did, was to adjust the way I invest my time, so that rather than using it primarily to develop content for this site, I spread it more evenly across a few other activities.

So, as well as writing here, I have really enjoyed blogging for my other site; Creative Thinking Hub.   I also connected with more and more great people over on Google+.  In addition, I have been commenting on other people’s blogs a lot more too; something I love to do, but have not had time for in ages.

I will work on improving my spread of activities again next week…. and the week after.

Are you commanding attention or demanding attention?

By Jim Connolly | July 20, 2011

commanding attention, demanding attention

Photo by Karolina Grabowska on Pexels.com

There’s a big difference between commanding people’s attention and demanding people’s attention.

Allow me to explain.

Demanding attention

Most small business marketing is based on demanding attention.

  • They send us emails we never asked for.
  • They pester us on social networking sites.
  • They call us in the office when we are busy. They call us at home when we are relaxing with our family and friends.
  • They interrupt our TV, podcasts and radio shows with their sales messages.
  • They pester us at business events.
  • In short, they do everything possible to demand that we listen to what they have to say.

Demanding attention is all about interrupting people, by pushing messages at them. The problem with that approach is that our natural reaction when being pushed, is to push back. Just because they demand our attention does not mean we are going to be receptive to them.

For example, if a marketer walks up to you in the street and pokes you in the chest, they will get your attention, but it’s not the kind of attention they want from you!

Commanding attention

A smarter approach is to command our attention. This is all about earning attention. People command our attention when they do something that attracts us and then either informs or entertains us; sometimes both. Sure, commanding people’s attention takes more creativity than demanding it, but the upside is huge.

That’s because we treat people (and information) that has commanded our attention very differently, from those who demand our attention.

Think of 2 things you will read today. For example, a spam email and this blog post.

  • The spam email is something you will delete the second you figure out what it is. That spam message may be in front of you, but there’s no desire on your part to engage with the content.
  • However, you have already almost read this post. There’s clearly a lot more engagement and trust here.

In life, you have the option to either demand attention or command it. You can either pester or attract. Interrupt or engage. Yes, there’s a place for targeted and timely advertising. However, it pays to command attention, to attract the interest of your marketplace, whenever possible. And it’s almost always possible.

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